I received the most wonderful e-mail last week. Do you remember in my last post when I told about how I didn't have my Master's Degree? Well, when I received that news I was crushed, although I couldn't really focus on it because I had so much to get ready for my classroom. Two weeks went by and I was still really frustrated at the situation, but realized I better get registered for my classes if I wanted to finish it. A lot of people thought the school should pay for my tuition and let me take the classes on-line, but the e-mail I received was even better. For those two weeks, I thought for sure I had been swept under the rug and forgotten about. I figured I was just being viewed as a careless student who couldn't read her program requirements correctly. However, for those two weeks, the Dean had been my advocate -- he completed a detailed investigation, compiled a report, and sent it to Provost (the mucky-mucks), requesting that I have 5 credits added to my record in order to fulfill the requirements of the MIT degree. And they agreed!! So I now have my Master's and didn't have to take any classes! That is such a weight off my shoulders, because now I don't have to take out another loan, or commute to Kirkland, OR be in school during my first year of teaching, AND I will get the bump in salary from Renton School District. Everything has worked out perfectly and I am just praising God for taking care of me. I am reminded of every piece of scripture that tell us "good things come to those who wait..." because I have to be honest, I was on the verge of sending one of those "angry-customer-demands-you-make-it-right" type e-mails to the university. I'm so glad I restrained myself.
Another reason I am praising God right now is because I have a student who is diagnosed ADHD and ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder). This kid is a nightmare. It makes me feel better to hear other teachers say that he can't be controlled by anybody. I'm pretty sure Supernanny couldn't even whip this little guy into shape. He came to school unmedicated on the first day. I managed to keep myself composed during the day, but once I got in the car to drive home, the flood gates slammed open. I felt like everything I knew about teaching and classroom management was out the window. I thought of the other kids in the class and wondered how they would ever make it through the year with the constant distraction of this little boy. That night I cried some more because I couldn't believe I was already wishing I didn't have to go to work the next day. All the stress mostly came from this student, but also because this whole week I have been commuting 2 hours a day and working 12 hours a day. Once you throw in the time it takes to get ready in the morning, sleep a few hours, and make dinner, there's not a lot time to spend with my baby. That's taking a toll on me, for sure. I'm ready for some kind of routine to present itself, although I have a feeling I'll be playing catch-up for a few more months still. Anyway, back to the student. On the second day, I was ready to just send him to the Resource Room at the first wrong move. I went out to the playground to get my class, absolutely dreading what the day might have in store for me. When I saw my class, I noticed the boy's mom standing next to him. She informed me that he had taken his medication and asked if I would keep an eye on him. How can I not?? The boy was like a completely different person. He looked me in the eye, he followed directions, he was able to wait patiently, he got to work right away... even during the assembly I could tell he was paying attention and information was getting in. So, my second day of school was much brighter than the first. The other kids were at ease, and we had fun. The third day was much the same. I am glad to say that I am really excited about my class, and I have some really sweet kids. It was hard for me to see just how blessed I am with these students, when I had somebody so extreme commanding all the attention. I am sure you'll hear all about the goofy things they say and do throughout the year. :)
A lot of people have been asking if we've figured out child care yet, and the answer is no. Well, partly no. One of my close friends, Kristen Hunter, is taking Calvin on those morning where I have to leave before Adam gets home from work. I love leaving him with her, although I always want to stay and visit. :) As for the almost 12 hour days, we had a friend who asked around at her church for any stay-at-home-moms looking for some extra income, and she found one. When I talked to the woman, I could already tell it wasn't going to work out because 1) She had to take her kids to activities in the early evening and I needed to be able to leave Calvin until 5 or 6 some days and 2) She asked if we could pay her more. The other person we found was a lady who runs a day care out of her home. She was recommended to me by another teacher in my building, who also took her kids there. We interviewed the lady, saw her home (which is only 10 minutes from my school!), and loved her right away. She was even willing to take Calvin despite our crazy schedule without charging us a minimum amount of days. However, she had another person interested who might have wanted full-time care. She said she would call us Tuesday, before leaving for her 2 week visit to India, but I didn't hear from her. So we have no idea if she is available, and I won't know until the day before we need somebody to watch Calvin for a full day. It's kind of hard to find people to watch a baby from 7am-6pm. Based on God's work in my life lately, I'm sure it will all work out. :)
That's all for now!